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Attraction and Connection
What actually draws people together and deepens closeness over time.
Proximity Effect
Nearness and repeated contact strongly shape who we become close to.
Mere Exposure Effect
Familiarity alone tends to increase liking.
Similarity-Attraction
Shared attitudes and values pull people together.
Self-Disclosure
Sharing yourself, in turns and at the right pace, builds closeness.
Social Penetration Theory
Closeness grows through steady, mutual disclosure from surface to core.
Emotional Intimacy
The felt sense of being known and safe with another person.
Passionate and Companionate Love
Intense early passion tends to mellow into steady companionate love.
Limerence
An intense, involuntary fixation that feels like love but is closer to obsession.
Attachment
Attachment is the emotional bond that shapes how we seek and offer safety in relationships.